Doosri shadi ka zikr hota hi bohot se log tanqeed shuru kar dete hain. Samajh mein isay aksar negative taur par liya jata hai aur log samajhte hain ke doosri shadi sirf masail peda karti hai. Lekin asal mein agar insaf, samajhdari aur mohabbat ke sath isay kiya jaye to is ke kuch aise fawaid bhi hain jo zindagi ko naya rang de sakte hain.
Sabse pehla faida ye hai ke doosri shadi un logon ke liye ek nayi shuruaat ban jati hai jinhon ne pehle rishtay mein dukh, tanhai ya nakami dekhi ho. Aik naya partner insaan ki zindagi mein umeed aur khushi le aata hai. Aksar pehli shadi tootne ke baad insaan samajhdar ho jata hai aur agli dafa behtareen faislay karta hai, jis ki wajah se zindagi zyada pur-sukoon guzarti hai.
Doosra faida ye hai ke yeh tanhai ka ilaj hai. Jo log talak ya widowa ho jate hain unki zindagi mein khali pan aa jata hai. Doosri shadi unhein sahara deti hai aur ek naya safar shuru karne ka hausla deti hai. Is se na sirf unki zindagi behtareen hoti hai balkeh mental health bhi improve hoti hai.
Aik aur aham nuktah ye hai ke doosri shadi society mein bhi ek positive role play karti hai. Jo aurat ya mard apne bachon ke sath akelay rehte hain, unke liye ek caring partner mil jaye to unke bachon ki tarbiyat bhi behtar hoti hai. Doosra shohar ya biwi agar zimmedar aur acha insaan ho to woh sirf life partner nahi balkeh ek achha dost aur guardian bhi ban jata hai.
Islam mein bhi agar insaf aur haqooq ka khayal rakha jaye to doosri shadi ki ijazat hai, aur bohot se waqiyat ne sabit kiya hai ke is se zindagi mein barkat, sukoon aur izzat barhti hai. Asal baat sirf niyat, mohabbat aur zimmedari nibhanay ki hoti hai.
Aakhir mein, doosri shadi un logon ke liye ek blessing ban sakti hai jo ek sachay, samajhdar aur pyar karne wale partner ki talash mein hote hain. Samajh ka negative sochna apni jagah, lekin asal mein ye zindagi ko naya rang aur umeed deti hai.